And yet – the road to maturity is long. But I thank you for your good words and recognition of the hardship entailed in finding my own answers. I know it is only because you have and still do travel that path yourself.

I appreciate your support, Kathleen! We share a moment on this planet with magnificent potential. It is exciting. Don’t you find?

Eivind

Let me explain to you what I think a wimp is;)

To me, a DD3 Goddess;) a wimp is a man who never learned to think for himself.  He is still controlled by all those around him.  A wimp is a man who will not search out truth on his own, with his own energy.  He will just accept what others tell him, even when he gets that gut feeling that it is not true or right for him.

A warrior owns his own truth.  Even when he doesn’t understand something, he admits it to himself, and then will take the time to educate himself.  He is not a man others cannot talk with and get there own interpretation out. He will be polite and listen, to an extent, and if he does not agree with what they are presenting, he will allow them their truth, but stay true to his own.  A warrior also is not a coward as far as saying, “You know what? I have learned more about “whatever” and now I have changed my mind. Just because something was a truth yesterday, does not mean it will be a truth today.

A warrior seeks knowledge. He is not afraid to be sad, hurt, or confused. He knows these are natural human emotions.  He does not however give up. He might need some quiet time to lick his wounds and heal, but then he will get up on his feet and seek knowledge to find out what went wrong and how he can live that situation better the next time.

So as far as I am concerned, you are not a wimp Eivind. You are a man seeking knowledge. Just like the other men on this site.  You didn’t give up.  You keep searching for your freedom from this perplexity.  You all have my respect for what you are working at with this site. Thanks Gentlemen, Kathleen

What categories would you like to see added to David Deida’s system?

“It seems movies and all events have something to teach, to those who will learn.” True. But a lot of this has a tendency of remaining head knowledge until we really challenge ourselves to live it in the flesh and blood.

This “They are afraid if they let go of how much male energy they are bringing in, they will become weak.” speaks to me. I’m not surprised. Though I can relate as well. I know how fearful I am at times of being “feminine”, to the point that I became less mature/masculine in my attempt to be the shit. I think we are generally afraid of animating feminine values and ways of being.

I love the energy in what you write, though I’m in the process of now embracing my inner wimp.

Now, as far as you helping men be more MEN, Thank you!!!!  I am so sick of wimpy men!  Women like me want REAL MEN!  In my heart, I feel each man has this energy deep within.  When a man does not experience his warrior energy, he may become depressed, overeat, become a bully or become a weak, wimpy man. Yuck! So thank you, thank you for what you are writing! If you ever want to know what a Goddess thinks…ask me:) ~~***Kathleen

Thanks for tuning in to tell me that you liked what you read. It feels more meaningful that way.