Differences between boys and men
by Eivind Figenschau Skjellum
This article is a work in progress
From FIT expert Shawn Phillips
| Boys | Men |
| Gadgets | Tools |
| Unpredictable | Dependable |
| Consume | Produce |
| Take | Give |
| Seek Power | Cultivate Strength |
| Hide Fear | Have Confidence |
| Things | Assets |
| More Muscle | More Vitality |
| Avoid | Embrace |
| Lust | Love |
| Try | Do! |
| Glorify Effort | Celebrate Results |
| Do Things To… | Get Things Done |
| Seek Praise | Give Praise |
Hallmarks of a mature man
- Men have Presence
- Men have Integrity
- Men are playful
- Men have Discipline
- Men live to serve
- Men will make sacrifices
- Men worship the Feminine
- Men penetrate the Feminine
- Men know how to circulate sexual energy
- Men are loyal
- Men are dedicated to something greater than themselves
- Men live with death as their constant companion
- Men’s mission in the world takes precedence over their relationship with their partner
- Men know how to deal with discomfort and danger
- Men work tirelessly to fulfill their goals, but have little attachment to the outcome
- Men don’t require praise, fame, or glory to keep going
- Men carry a relaxed and natural authority
- Men listen with total presence and profound stillness
- Men are true students
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Earl Hipp
Posted on May 11th, 2010 at 2:57 am
I’d love to put the “Difference…” chart on the Man-Making blog if you’re willing.
Let me know,
Earl